The good news is that whatever the life situation or whatever life throws at us, we can always turn it around once we decide to make it happen, my time now has now come to say bye bye for a while from blogging as I have said all I need to say for now. I only hope you decide to have a more happy and fulfilling life the way you deserve. Wishing you all a luscious, sensual, warm, loving, joyful and restful life ~A Path To
Enlightenment… god bless you and take care Joanne! xxx
Here are some last tips to orchestrate the turn around :
1) Believe it is possible to succeed
The only real danger is your belief that there is no solution for your problem –
that you are indeed helpless. You need to first remove this belief if you want
to make any progress. The fact is that all power to find that solution lies
within you – you are just not seeing the solution yet.
2) Your past is not equal to your future
Your future has got nothing to do with the past. By taking correct action in the
present moment, you can create anything you want. Learn from the past but do
not get stuck in it.
3) Practice Persistence
Success takes persistence. People who stick around longer without giving up open themselves to success more than people who give up easily when they fail a few times. Successful people never stop trying.
4) Do it better each day
While persistence is good, one needs to always look for better ways to solve the same problem. Get creative and see how you can solve the same problem in a better way, that you did not attempt yesterday.
5) There are no real failures
Each failure is a stepping stone to future success. Failures brings us much needed knowledge and experience that was lacking the last time around. If the correct lessons are learnt and applied from past experiences, success if not far away.
6) Consult with an expert
It is good to get some fresh ideas from other people who have experience and skill dealing with the challenges you are facing. For example, some relationships that you could not improve by yourself for over a decade can be turned around
in a couple of months with help from a skilled relationship coach. The same goes with other areas of life such as your career, health and finances.
7) Stay positive and appreciative of what you do have
Just because one area of your life is not working the way you want, do not fool yourself into believing that your entire life has gone haywire. When we are focused on what is lacking, we just tend not to pay enough attention to what is working. Practice genuine appreciation of the areas of your life that are doing great. Whatever the situation, each one of us has a lot to be grateful for, that some others may not be blessed with.
8) Know that this too shall pass
No problem remains forever. Most of us have faced problems that perhaps felt like the end of the world many years back, that hardly cross our mind at this time. With continued right effort, you will find the solution much sooner than you think.
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“If you love somebody, let them go, for if they return, they were always yours. And if they don’t, they never were”
This famous love quote has implications for other facets of your life too.
When you let go of a problem, a goof, a project, a chore or a puzzle; The answer will come to you, perhaps not as you had envisioned it, but as is should be.
Sometimes the answer comes as an AHA moment. You will know the solution.
Learning to Let Go can lead you to an amazing life.
Ancient wisdom teaches that what we resist we get. So it is time you learned to:
• Stop fighting
• Stop swimming upstream
• Stop pushing
• Stop trying to make life what it isn’t
• Stop playing God
In Judo suddenly giving way after a period of pushing or pulling can powerfully throw your opponent off balance and the same is true when wrestling with life.
Learn how to let go. When you do, you will discover real power.
As you practice letting go, you’ll discover the process is full of paradoxes, you have to let go in order to achieve or progress.
Remember that, “What we resist, persists.”
“When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be.”
The basic tenet of ancient teachings on health and relaxation such as the tai chi, martial arts and yoga is all about learning to let go.
Letting go is NOT:
A lack of faith
It is about having the wisdom to back off and allow a Universal Power to work on the problem.
“The hardest part of anything is the beginning, and the second hardest part is letting go when it’s the end.”
Reasons to Let Go:
Let it go to grow
As protection against a burn out
Release dependency on the problem
Get a better solution
Too often we stay locked in a battle with life or a relationship when the best thing we could do would be to let go, stop resisting and turn it over.
Letting go is one way of releasing us from our addiction of control.
Letting go is often the best solution.
Let go of:
4. Who left the toothpaste out
5. The future
You’ll find that you’re not in charge of the world.
Letting go is releasing dependency in relationships and dependence on problems.
We are actually dependent on the worry and pondering of trying to solve problems. Letting go is a much better solution.
“We must be willing to let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the life that is waiting for us.”
No matter your spiritual path you can learn to let go. There are no dogmas or doctrines to the practice of letting go. Surrendering is not bound to any faith.
Just let the Universe take over. The solutions will amaze you
“Sit quietly, doing nothing, spring comes and the grass grows by itself.”
When all else fails, let it go.
Several questions arise, such as:
When do you take it back? You’ll know because you’ll have an answer.
When does something happen? When it does.
What if nothing happens. It will.
Where does it go when I let go? It goes to the Universe.
People call it God, Buddha etc. It goes to the power that runs the Universe, no matter what we call it.
It goes out and if you truly let it go, it will come back resolved.
When you experience repeated set backs and road blocks; learn to surrender. It will have a powerful effect. It will open you to new choices.
Remember, when you feel stuck. Stop
Let go of your wilful need to change and control the world. Instead, work on transforming yourself.
When you don’t know what to do, turn left.
There is power in letting go. You ask, “does letting go work?” Absolutely, that is why there are volumes written on the topic.
• Relax, learn to let go, your needs will be met.
• Stop struggling and wasting valuable energy. Release it.
• Not religious? Well just say what have I got to lose, I’ve tried everything else.
• You don’t even have to believe, just try it. It works.
• Stop trying to have everything go your way. That’s not how life works.
• Take several deep breaths, let it all go.
• Go do something else.
• Stop efforting, questioning, planning, scheming, and plotting.
You will feel renewed strength and courage. You will sense that all is well.
The Universe does not leave voids.
Trees in a storm bend so as not to break. Could we learn from them?
Letting go is to learn that you’re not God.
Copyright © Wee Dilts 2009