How to deal with a narcissist – The signs, the protection and the support

Do you have a cold, overbearing, self interested, grandious individual in  your life? If so, its vital that you learn how to recognize and how to deal with a narcissist.  Knowing how you can deal with a narcissist has many benefits, but the most important being that you will learn how to protect  your self from emotional, and potential bodily abuse.

As a narcissism  support practitioner over a number of years, I strongly believe that it is  essential to be made aware about the narcissistic personality so you can have  sensible expectations when dealing with coworkers, buddies, or members of the  family who might have a few of these qualities.

blame-abuseHere are some methods to  be familiar with a narcissist: Their motto is always “Me first!” Everything’s  all about them. They have a grandiose sense of self-importance and entitlement,  crave admiration and attention. A legend in their very own mind, the world is  mirrored in their image. They’ll corner you at a party, and narrate their life  saga. Some narcissists may be charming, clever, caring–that’s, until their  guru-status is threatened. Whenever you stop stroking their ego or beg to  disagree, they’ll turn on you and become punishing and abusive.      

These people are so  harmful because they lack empathy, and have a restricted capacity for  unconditional love. Sadly, their hearts either haven’t developed or have been  shut down due to early psychic trauma,  such as being raised by narcissistic dad and mom, a crippling handicap both  emotionally and spiritually. Onerous as it might be to grasp, these folks have  little insight into their actions, nor do they regret them. Though usually  extremely intuitive, they primarily use intuition for self-interest and  manipulation.

To find out if you’re coping with a narcissist, ask your  self the next questions:

* Does the particular person act as if life  revolves round him or her?
* Do I have to compliment him/her to get his  attention or approval?
* Does he/she continuously steer the conversation back  to himself?
* Does he/she downplay my feelings or interests?
* If I  disagree, does he/she become cold or withholding?

Should you reply  “sure” to one or 2 questions, it’s possible you’re coping with a narcissist.  Responding “sure” to three or more questions suggests that a narcissist is  violating your emotional freedom and due  to this fact being abusive.

Narcissists are laborious nuts to crack.  My recommendation is: Don’t fall in love with a narcissist or entertain  illusions they are capable of the give and take mandatory for intimacy. In such  relationships you will always be emotionally deserted to some degree. When you  have a withholding narcissist partner, beware of making an attempt to win the  nurturing you never got out of your parents; it’s not going to happen. Also, do  not anticipate to have your sensitivity honored. These people sour love with all  of the hoops you will need to jump through to please them.

paul2012frees  –    About the Author:

Despite all the difficulties in coping with a narcissist, there are excellent  methods and support services accessible for anyone struggling in a narcissistic  relationship and not able to move away from it for any reason. To find how to deal  with a narcissist, and what support is available click the preceding link  (or CLICK HERE  NOW) to visit Stop-The-Abuse.info

About Joanne Wellington

Joanne is: Author, intuitive and founder of a network of sites and blogs dedicated to helping you define, refine and achieve your grandest dreams! For empowering tips, articles and resources, visit https://joannewellington.wordpress.com/ , http://mediumsworld.wordpress.com/ and begin your transformation today! Joanne always says...I don't care how much money you make, what colour your skin is, where you live, what you drive, whether you're gay or straight, fat or thin, tall or short, beautiful or average. If you're my friend, I love you dearly, and that is ALL that counts! Positivity is free for the taking, inspiration awaits only to be recognized and confidence is always encouraged, her mission at Mediums World ,World of Inspiration is to inform, to inspire and empower people to be their best, both personally and professionally.

Posted on August 20, 2011, in Family, General, Health, Relationships, Spiritual and tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 4 Comments.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: