Monthly Archives: October 2010
When You Know Your Core Values, Every Single Decision You Make is Easier.
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Written by Joanne Wellington for Mediums World
Sound core values are the foundation of a truly successful life. Have more purpose, passion and meaning in your life
In order for you to create this excellence anywhere in your life, there must be a strong foundation for you to build upon. Build that foundation with solid values and a strong sense of purpose, and your results will be nothing short of magical.
By living Your Core Values, not only will you be more successful , you enjoy your success more. You also achieve your outcomes with less effort and conflict.
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Nothing makes me more angry and sad than a cold and judgmental person.
Written by Joanne Wellington for Mediums World
Yes Mike Robbins is quite right in many aspects of his article The Power of Empathy and I have to say and have mentioned to
people before that a cold and judgmental person is such a sad thing to see or be.
I wish people could learn to be more understanding. Nothing makes me more angry and sad than a cold and judgmental person.
We all have judgmental prejudices. We all think thoughts that separate us from one another. We may not necessarily agree with everyone, that would be very impossible, but we can at least try to understand why people do something or act in a certain way. We can learn a lot that way…
This may or may not change anything, but I have always felt bad in the past when I have judged people… WE really should do better…. We should learn not to judge . Life is so much more enriching the more people you know and there really are some wonderful people out there once you let go, and you will find out the more diverse they are.
I challenge people now to try to make yourself a better person. You may not always agree with others, but is it really so hard to see through someone else’s eyes and see the other side of the coin ? Trust me, you’ll be happier if you do. understanding is great patience, and great patience is gold within us……!!..its very important for your children to learn too if you have them..
Try it for you ,do it for them , lets help make the world a better place .
Lets talk about self-pity…the answer is really worth its weight in gold if found.
Written by Joanne Wellington for Mediums World
Lets talk about self-pity…the answer is really worth its weight in gold if found. If we want to be happy we have to stop feeling sorry
for ourselves and stop wallowing in self-pity. If you think about it we all enjoy doing it and we do it way more than we consciously realise.. self-pity is a soul emotion that clouds our happiness and I invite you to consider that for a second.. because self-pity is a very unique emotion that eats up everything all around us except itself, leaving itself on its own little island… bitter and angry and sticking up for its own values..
Self-pity does feel good at first because it reminds us of hey you know the worlds so cruel and life’s dealt us a bad hand, we are just not worthy, and that might be true in some cases but its pretty pointless and it’s not really going to help us.. Let go of self-pity… It’s all about being responsible for your thoughts and actions again and you will automatically clear those grey clouds shielding you from true happiness.
We sometimes go into the self-pity mode when we get to a point in life, and there are guaranteed to be a couple, we have all been there, many of us on a daily basis. It is terrible sometimes when we feel the world is caving in, when things go wrong all at once and we start to feel sorry for ourselves and we realise ” Gee ” life isn’t really that good and isn’t treating us very well and maybe we are not worth anything, maybe things are just destined to not work out for us, and then we feel sorry for ourselves and just wallow in that self-pity, and it’s quite ironic because it makes us feel good temporarily, we sort of think “hey yeah I was right!” so there’s a little sort of quite positive feedback from the negativity. But as you move forward slowly that self-pity, that feeling sorry for yourself, turns very bitter and gets worse and worse then you find that people around you who are trying to help are changing towards you but STOP is it really them…?
hmm… but then again it is hard to forgive the people who innocently push your buttons instead you get angry with them when you are wallowing in self.
Really it’s not good for our well-being at all …you just have try as much as possible to stop feeling sorry for yourself and you’ll very rarely have a reason for sadness its bad for all long-term. You’ll enjoy and have more happiness in your life if you could just remember it is just a part of life not the whole of it. We are always dipping into happiness and sadness and we do need both sides of this coin in order to know the difference. To help us forward ourselves and all around us we need to endure sadness but not hold it and not for long periods of time not even a whole day if you can help it.. we have to embrace the duality of it and be gentle with ourselves.
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- Positive Psychology News Daily ” Self-Kindness: A Healthier … (positivepsychologynews.com)
You can change your frame of mind.
Written by Joanne Wellington
You can change your frame of mind for the better when ever you want it only takes a second truly try it…we all have this power within us its just when we choose to use it.
We all end up feeling that we need to leave a legacy .
Written by Joanne Wellington
We all end up feeling that we need to leave a legacy . It is a another basic desire to want our lives to count for something. “To laugh
often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and affection of children; to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate beauty; and to find the best in others; to leave the world a little bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition; to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded.”
